Sunday 14 June 2009

A Little Talk To The Little One

Inspired by a book that I hooked up in my recent reading, I looked at an old photograph of a younger me. According to the book, in order to ignite the genius within, one needs to sharpen his sense of visualization by connecting the stimulus in front of him with his inner resources and experiences. So here, I have the stimulating object - the old photograph that one of my old friend had posted in the FB. It was taken in 1985, when we were twelve years old. The book instructed me to have a good look at the photograph, then close my eyes and visualize myself in the current state talking to that younger me. So I had this little talk....




The man : "Hi there! I'm YOU when you're old. How are you?"

The boy : "Good. But I'm expecting a better look of a man when I'm old. You're just too plain and ordinary."

The man : "Listen boy. Let me give you a few lessons in life. First, you're not going to be any supermodel, that's for sure. So let's just face it from now, physically you're going to be plain and ordinary. So start working out other ways to make the difference. It starts with the head. The head up here. At school, wake up and ask a lot of questions. That's the fast way to get smarter. Don't simply memorize what is written and regurgitate it in the exams. It's OK if you don't get all the right answers and you don't score an A, so long you understand the principles of the subject and able to think, to defend what you believe in and to challenge the doubt. And stay away from that plump boy who brings porn stuff to school. Porn is a hazard to intelligence. Get it?

The boy : "It's a little too late. He'd shown me stuff already..."

The man : "Never mind. A little porn won't kill. So what do you think you want to become when you're old?"

The boy : "A doctor"

The man : "Forget it, boy. You'll never become one and that's a good thing. Life as a doctor sucks, you get stuck with sick people for the rest of your hospitalized life. Someone special has told me that. You'd better believe her. Engineering is a better option to explore. But you need to pay more attention in your Physics and Chemistry classes later in your secondary school. Do your homework. You must be strong, fundamentally. Life is a journey, boy. Enjoy yourself and have fun every single day. Don't take yourself too seriously. For every single thing that makes you upset and frustrated, learn from it. Believe me, it happens for your own good. God has been very kind to you all the way long. Keep the faith and never keep Him out of your mind."

12 comments:

Inah said...

i read this entry with a smile :)..i can relate it to my situation now :)

anyway..Happy Father's Day!!

Ms B said...

Ok, to be honest I cracked when i saw porn. Couldnt focus on reading the rest. *lol*

But a wise advice indeed.

ps: another sunny day. yippie!

Syamsulfaiz said...

A good read indeed. And a brief peep into the young Jumper. Porn huh...ok I think we have something in common here....hmmm ...hey you wanna borrow my dvd? OK forget about it.

[danial][ma] said...

hej! Jumper...i think that young boy has grown to be a successful man, great dad, great hubby...and that young boy needs to share his pubescent experiences with the great man's little boy...;-)

hady said...

damn it.. how come you can be soooooooo creative in telling stories? its a good story!

and please tell that little boy,
he does not have to be supermodel -to be different, not plain and not ordinary

yet, by just being himself, he is outstanding enough.

"its not cool to try to be cool"

ah, selamat hari bapa!

ms.d said...

mr.jumper! lovely conversation!

a doctor?

ouhhh u'll get sick being surrounded by sick people...hahah

i agreed with the guy's special someone tuu..hahaha

selamat hari abah!

zafi said...

woooo
i am flabbergasted though!
outstanding narrative and it was cool entry!
Happy father's day anyway... :)

Nite Garden said...

Happy father's day Jumper :D

somebody said...

Interesting post! i like this blog.. ;]

hady said...

ok, saya sudah risau

laptop kamu kena curi ke?

kenapa xde entry baru?

Jumper said...

Inah,
Thank you. I read your words about your father. You're lucky to have such a great man.

Ms B,
Enjoy your sunny day and matching it with your sunny dresses that will make you wonderful...

Syamsulfaiz,
Thanks but no thanks. I have about 20 years of porn polluting my head. Enough already.

Danial,
Your comment carries a heavy load of honour. It's just beyond my capacity to handle it. Thanks anyway. I'll try to chew it.

hady,
Thank you. I like the FF motto, 'Be yourself, only better'. I hope you're really working hard on your 6-pack.It's a mission possible; but it takes great effort.

ms.d,
Thank you for the wish.

zafi,
welcome to my blog. Thank you for dropping by.

Nite Garden,
Thank you.

A sinner,
Thank you for dropping by. I've been to your blog. I don't dare to judge you. I hope you'll find peace and meaning in whatever you do. Love is there, we just have to look harder. I'll pray that you'll be guided to find yours.

hady,
Sometimes you just need time for yourself. I just had mine...

Setitis Tinta Di Alam Maya said...

mus..gambar masa darjah 1-4 takde ke? i lost all the photos la...